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Lost Connections: The impact of smart gadgets on family values can be devastating
By Ayaan Saroori
In the smart gadget era, we have lost the true gems of our family–our grandparents. Jammu and Kashmir has a long history of family values, where discussions led by family elders held importance. However, that precious culture is fading.
Grandparents played a vital role in preserving cultural, social, religious and decision-making traditions. Unfortunately, due to busy schedules and digital distractions, many grandparents are left unheard, and their wisdom remains silent and ignored. Young people feel bored listening to their tales as they prefer scrolling.
Why do we not have an hour to spend with our grandparents?
With mobile addiction, where entertainment is easily available, employed people are too busy handling their work. This leads to a gradual loss. During meals, we have heard tales recited by our parents’ grandparents. These tales signify their moral and emotional values. Many of their habits have transferred to our parents.
However, our generation has lost these connections and values to smart gadgets and over-exposure to social media. The fading of family discussions leads to diminished family interaction.
Young people are eager to talk with friends, but not with their parents or grandparents. Students don’t want to be accountable to parents regarding money and academics. How can any grandparent matter if a parent is not valued?
Many grandparents are lonely, with no one willing to listen to them. The smart gadgets have transformed not only my generation, but even that of our parents. They no longer spend as much time with the elderly. For their children, both the parents and grandparents will gradually become invisible. A chain started by parents will end with them.
Though digital use is important, its addiction is bad. We can use screens beneficially, but not overuse them for relaxation and entertainment. Family discussions should be a priority.
Conversations with grandparents inspire and foster ways of speaking, managing stress, and handling matters logically. Many grandparents know life’s struggles well, and respond patiently to emergencies, offering us valuable lessons.
Besides, they need our love through conversations. For how long will screens make us happy?
Courtesy: Kashmir Times.